Dear Coleen,
I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for over six months now and everything has been great.
In fact it was perfect, until a few nights ago when I woke up and found him sucking my toes!
I was shocked and even felt a little violated, but I pretended to stay asleep until he was done.
Our sex life is great and I’ve told him I’m open to new ideas.
I’m sure I could incorporate my feet into sex somehow if that’s what he wants, I just don’t know how to approach the subject without him getting embarrassed – that’s the last thing I want!
I just want him to open up to me.
Coleen says..
Because you didn’t react to it when you woke up, you’ve probably made it into a bigger deal than it needs to be.
Start by having the discussion about what you’re into and what you’re not, and what’s acceptable and what isn’t when it comes to sex – and include fantasies and fetishes.
He’s obviously embarrassed about it or he would have mentioned it or tried it when you were awake!
He might be worried that you’ll think a foot fetish is weird or he’s been told it’s weird, so is too shy to mention it to you.
If you bring it up, though, and show you’re willing to talk about it, it’ll give him the opportunity to tell you how he feels.
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